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Tuesday, December 6, 2022

Justin Two and December, Who Invited You?

Dear Sillies,
   I'm shocked, shocked I tell ya, that December arrived. Who invited December? That cheery, fat alcoholic on the North Pole? I mean, it wasn't me.   
   Needless to say, I hope that you're faring well, staying as warm as possible (and/or as cool as possible for our friends in Australia), and feeling reasonably good about the approaching festivities. 
   It's not all easy-peasy here --with health worries and procedures, with the passing of friends/acquaintaneces, with the general strife of life, work, ecsetera. I say this so as to NOT be one of those annoying people who pubicizes their "perfect" life and "world's best" relationship. 
   Justin Two and I, however, are doing alright. We do occasionally snicker and bicker. But he's a good one. I'm a good one. Mostly sometimes on occasion. Smiles.
   We've made it to 18 months. We're 1.5 years old! I know. I can't believe it. To celebrate, we went to the Sierra Nevada foothills this past weekend (Grass Valley). It was raining hard, but that was okay. It meant we "had to" stay in a cozy room and relax. Or go out for food and warm drinks.


   Oh and note what finger this ring is on. Yeah, but you know how I don't conform to societal expectations.  
   I found this cheapie ring in a store there. Justin Two purchased it and put it on my (wedding) ring finger. He then declared us Permanently Engaged. Woohoo! (We've both been burned by marriage. CA divorce settlement laws are twisted and antiquated, too. Thus, we plan to never marry.) 
   I'm loving my pretty P.E. ring. 

Be well, Sillies.

27 comments:

  1. Woo Hoo. Thank you for adding a note of cheer (and of love) to a very stressful time of year. And I love your ring too.

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    1. I'm fortunate that I'm able to. You're appreciated, EC, now and all the year through.

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  2. Glad the two of you are rocking strong. Hey, never say never...

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    1. Well, for JT's sake, I say "never." But I know you're right. You always are. Thank you. =)

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  3. Wait a minute! You're dating someone?! I don't know about this. I'll get back to you with an opinion. 😆

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    1. I believe you read about him at the end of InSanity, my friend. We were newbies then. Now we're mid-toddlerhood.

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  4. Eighteen months is great! "Permanently engaged" is a fine status to have!

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    1. Thank you, Debra. I'm honored to have your approval and support.
      Hugs.

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  5. Congratulations on the permanent engagement and on 1-1/2 years!

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  6. Permanent engagement sounds like a lovely level of commitment. Congratulations!

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    1. I think it's fitting. Thank you, Liza. I hope you're well.

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  7. Congratulations on your permanent engagement! The Grass Valley and Nevada City areas are nice, sorry the weather was bad but I expect you enjoyed yourselves anyway. And, as I'm writing this the day after the Georgia elections, we can rest easy to know there will be no werwolves in the Senate.

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    1. Oh, I know, Jeff. What a relief! Whoosh. Thanks for the reminder. Be well and warm.

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    1. First off, I'm impressed that you actually decided to answer a spammers post, as opposed to nuking it. Secondly, permanently engaged sounds quite the modern equivalent of a common law marriage. Also sounds like something my daughter might become some years down the road.

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  9. Thank you, doll. I love it too, and I was surprised to finally find a ring in my size that I didn't have to get fitted.

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  10. That is wonderful! You look adorable together.

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    1. Thank you, sweet Martha. So good to see you here again.

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  11. The ring is pretty and you guys are priceless . My wedding ring costed sixty rupees exactly six dollars in 1971, He liked it and I love it. That's all. .

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  12. congrats on being a duo. Your smiles say it all. Cheers to non-conforming. Just laugh - that's the best! Hugs all around.

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  13. I misses this until nappy non anniversary, non engagement. May you both love every moment you are together e en when you bicker. My hubby and I have made an art out of bickering.

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    1. Thank you, Birgit. As long as he ultimately admits that you're right, right? Love to you.

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