tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post160787653372904475..comments2024-03-28T15:15:29.138-07:00Comments on Life by Chocolate: Robyn Alana Engel's Blog: Dude Three, Dick Sounds, Make-up SexRawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-69021637556836089682018-01-20T01:02:26.192-08:002018-01-20T01:02:26.192-08:00Awkward exchange. At least he admits he was being ...Awkward exchange. At least he admits he was being a dick.<br />I think it's ok to express your emotions in a relationship. It's not the same as a counselling session. If you're not happy about something, then tactfully, respectfully, talk it through. It seems as though the not talking about 'it', made it worse. Outsider's view of course, but you've gotta have the honesty there.<br />Make up sex is great, but if the underlying issues aren't sorted, they will rise again lol... pun kinda deliberate..<br /><br />Crossing fingers for you two!~<br /><br />Anthony J. Langfordhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02027216695415849158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-21433296751692580942018-01-08T16:29:11.026-08:002018-01-08T16:29:11.026-08:00You lucky dog.
I can't decide what my worst se...You lucky dog.<br />I can't decide what my worst sex was - most of it falls under the "worst" category. But it's like wine, right? It gets better with age. Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-39743896258999598362018-01-08T16:23:51.275-08:002018-01-08T16:23:51.275-08:00Thank you, Lux.
Yeah, it seems like a big deal wor...Thank you, Lux.<br />Yeah, it seems like a big deal worth rewarding, right? I'm so naive. Smiles.<br /><br />Hot moments to you too - in any form.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-34506465284919420732018-01-07T16:22:55.126-08:002018-01-07T16:22:55.126-08:00The worst sex I ever had was wonderful, so I may n...The worst sex I ever had was wonderful, so I may not be the best judge.Al Penwasserhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14052950809151897315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-79990541976253206182018-01-07T02:33:51.396-08:002018-01-07T02:33:51.396-08:00Well, that is exciting. I think a man who admits h...Well, that is exciting. I think a man who admits his boo boos is a good sign, right? Unless of course he's just doing so to get to a girl's pants. <br /><br />Hey, Happy New Year! May you have more hotter moments this 2018.Lux G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00557863683608790087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-5147823751589045222018-01-05T11:42:22.636-08:002018-01-05T11:42:22.636-08:00I'm sayin'. High-fives, sister.
Love.I'm sayin'. High-fives, sister.<br /><br />Love.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-2147789771400152742018-01-04T18:27:33.031-08:002018-01-04T18:27:33.031-08:00I've never had make-up sex. If I'm pissed ...I've never had make-up sex. If I'm pissed off, then don't fucking touch me. Don't fucking get anywhere near me. I will cut off your dick.<br /><br />Love,<br />JanieJanie Junebughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10573607241326291404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-3197488135137664662018-01-04T16:54:01.379-08:002018-01-04T16:54:01.379-08:00I haven't experienced that one either, Diane.....I haven't experienced that one either, Diane...not yet. =)Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-29339925497565718772018-01-04T16:53:26.580-08:002018-01-04T16:53:26.580-08:00TBC, Joanne. TBC.
I hope you're doing well.TBC, Joanne. TBC.<br />I hope you're doing well.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-993022149412094852018-01-04T16:51:50.988-08:002018-01-04T16:51:50.988-08:00Excellent point, Wilma. Thank you for asking and s...Excellent point, Wilma. Thank you for asking and saying that. Yeah, let me clarify. "Why" is highly relevant when it is. You couldn't and wouldn't do your job if we didn't ask "why?" That counselor shouldn't have chastised you for exploring your husband's views. The problem with "why" is when it is a response to an emotional expression like "I fell guilty," "I'm mad at you" or the like. We're very fragile with emotions and need validation, not to feel a need to defend ourselves. This doesn't even fit my example, though. But Dude Three had already made a unilateral decision for us and he said it was because it was too windy outside. So I knew that "why" would only fuel (more) argument. To say "Why didn't you do..." is to say you did the wrong thing. Does that make sense? Anyway, it's not as clear as that. I was just taught to exercise caution with the word. Thanks for your input.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-24185052344192994172018-01-04T16:45:32.988-08:002018-01-04T16:45:32.988-08:00Oh, I feel way too bad about the dude. Don't b...Oh, I feel way too bad about the dude. Don't be so hard on yourself, JoJo. Be hard on your hubs. Smiles. Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-50560470692544866932018-01-04T16:45:02.187-08:002018-01-04T16:45:02.187-08:00I agree, Connie. It adds excitement to call it &qu...I agree, Connie. It adds excitement to call it "makeup sex," I suppose.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-52268630215240571522018-01-04T12:46:04.581-08:002018-01-04T12:46:04.581-08:00Thanks, Martha. Suspense is better than boredom, I...Thanks, Martha. Suspense is better than boredom, I think.<br />Smiles.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-63390144109529824412018-01-04T12:21:40.655-08:002018-01-04T12:21:40.655-08:00Makeup sex is always good. It's like a cleansi...Makeup sex is always good. It's like a cleansing. Although I've never had a dick talk to me...L. Diane Wolfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06425864276166334896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-37655634645296046302018-01-04T12:11:22.276-08:002018-01-04T12:11:22.276-08:00Oh yeah, a woman shouldn't give away makeup se...Oh yeah, a woman shouldn't give away makeup sex so easily...um, oops.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-7909026281962416892018-01-04T12:10:49.253-08:002018-01-04T12:10:49.253-08:00Right. You can't simply let it go. Caring peop...Right. You can't simply let it go. Caring people don't work that way - it takes hours or longer.<br />Thanks for chiming in.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-21390776246159999832018-01-04T12:10:04.166-08:002018-01-04T12:10:04.166-08:00Haha! I never met anyone who (like me) - especiall...Haha! I never met anyone who (like me) - especially not a male - apologizes out of habit. Don't be sorry for apologizing all the time, PVP. You likely have lots of good makeup sex. Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-73999152749724629952018-01-04T12:08:36.113-08:002018-01-04T12:08:36.113-08:00It's always smart for a man to say "Sorry...It's always smart for a man to say "Sorry honey. I acted like a dick" even when he doesn't have a clue what he's apologizing for, Jono. Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-37145123744178751462018-01-04T12:07:40.638-08:002018-01-04T12:07:40.638-08:00You always make good points, Pat.
And yeah, no ti...You always make good points, Pat. <br />And yeah, no time for that crap.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-22270620498470946172018-01-04T12:07:01.561-08:002018-01-04T12:07:01.561-08:00I love learning about these other traditions.
Ari...I love learning about these other traditions. <br />Arigatou, Ryoma.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-23694471076850168142018-01-04T12:06:16.495-08:002018-01-04T12:06:16.495-08:00I don't get my limits either, Geo. You're ...I don't get my limits either, Geo. You're not alone.<br />You delight me whenever I see you here (or there, at your home in cyberspace).<br />Much gratitude.Rawknrobyn.blogspot.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15997241410192066577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-40278831177410424712018-01-04T11:44:22.289-08:002018-01-04T11:44:22.289-08:00I agree with Connie above or JoJo. Anyway, no dou...I agree with Connie above or JoJo. Anyway, no doubt it depends on the situation. So I can't say no, never, or heck yes. Either way, sounds like things are ducky or should I say dicky in your world. Dude 3 is hanging in there and I'm rooting for him. TBC!Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11604494404874408870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-57850372139718549682018-01-04T09:35:31.155-08:002018-01-04T09:35:31.155-08:00I totally agree with Connie, above. about makeup s...I totally agree with Connie, above. about makeup sex. <br /><br />Off topic. Why is "why" considered judgmental? It can be an honest request for information. As a scientist, I ask why all the time in order learn and understand how things work. During a rough patch, my husband and I sought counseling and during a session I was chastised for asking why. By mutual agreement, we changed counselors because of that. I think "why" shows interest and openness for appreciating a different perspective. It invites discussion. Now, whining "why?" is a different matter. My 2 cents.Wilmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14717012784233946753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-5921776904790789052018-01-04T08:42:23.304-08:002018-01-04T08:42:23.304-08:00I have a hard time letting things go after a fight...I have a hard time letting things go after a fight and that's definitely not the time I am inclined to have sex. I feel way too bad about myself. JoJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18165375435543044068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4887335526723967972.post-34491800948095274002018-01-04T08:41:04.935-08:002018-01-04T08:41:04.935-08:00Makeup sex doesn't exist in my mind. The probl...Makeup sex doesn't exist in my mind. The problem has to be solved first outside of sex. The sex itself doesn't fix anything. Looking forward to the next installment!Conniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03865193802444007545noreply@blogger.com